When did you decide to reconcile?

[4luv]

Thank you Abbey for your response. The "mini starts" and "false starts" are what I am afraid of. I like that you held him off for 4 and a half months. I didn't bring up the reconciliation, he came out and said it today. We hadn't spoken to each other for almost 2 weeks because he broke things of with OW and she called me all upset and was telling me how husband was lying to me and her. Everythign she told me I already knew from the snooping that I did but husband didn't call me until today to talk about this phone call that happened almost 2 weeks ago. He said he just didn't know the words to say to me.

I guess I have to take a risk but tread carefully. I am just scared.