Quote: ? I don't know the legalities of divorce as I never did get any further than scheduling an apt with one but doesn't that just mean you've postponed it? Is it not possible that to him (though he did do wrong with ow) that he see's you as the one who doesn't want to work on the m?
Yes, putting in for a continuance will only postpone the finalization of the d. Yes, I suppose he can see me as wanting the d because I don't dismiss. He asked that I not dismiss when I asked him because he didn't want to have to pay all over again to refile if we decided later we wanted the d. I'm really going off what he told me...I don't understand! I can't really do the right thing here. If I try to dismiss he'll just refile he says or that was the story 2 weeks ago.
I'm trying as hard as I can to figure out what is the WRONG Thing to do here but every step I take whether continuance or dimissal is wrong with him.