Keep that up with her. If you think you are not friends or don't want to be friends then just tell her that. If this were your first time around the D'coaster I might tell you something different but this is your second time around with her. It is about time she feels the loss of her best friend/husband.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final