Again sandi, thank you. I know it was bad on my part to go along with her last night. I even thought to myself that she's not thinking about me. But, jus for the record, we didn't actually have sex, just fooled around.

I guess I could have worded what I said about the S better. I guess I was trying to make her actually think about the specifics and details o this plan of hers. I think in her head, it's just as simple as saying you want to do it, and there's no hard work, loss, or planning involved. I have ZERO intention of helping her do this. I do realize that my compliment wasn't a good idea.

I'm glad so done else thinks she's being silly for her age! I couldn't agree more.
I'll say this too, her online activity is really starting to take it's toll on her. The OM is 2 hours behind us, so she's been up until 2-3 am every night and getting up around 7. Like today, she was about an hour and a half late to work and had to go home around 2:30 and take a nap from being so tired. And I know some of that is all of this in general is exhausting, but her schedule is getting so out of whack, and I can see the effect it's having on her. Especially since I'm starting to get back into mine and doing better.