Quote: I don't see any way out of the d now. I just screwed up royally!!!
sounds as if he's continually refering to this as YOUR d...you are the one who wanted it and wants it...
am I getting a clear pic here?
you went away for a bit with him and things were good...you get back and he checks in with the atty and finds that the d is not dropped but put into a continuance? I don't know the legalities of divorce as I never did get any further than scheduling an apt with one but doesn't that just mean you've postponed it? Is it not possible that to him (though he did do wrong with ow) that he see's you as the one who doesn't want to work on the m?
not trying to be hard on you as that is the last thing you need right now, just trying to understand the big pic.
