MLC, H and me

[courageous wife]

Well guys, I saw H today but he was in and out so fast I couldn't even tell you what he was wearing...ha! He dropped off money for the house taxes (took a loan from retirement) and $100 for S14's scout camp this summer. He had called beforehand to tell me he had it and would drop it off. He borrowed the full amount for the taxes...not just his half...I had explained all that to him in a previous conversation. I don't want this to be a legal issue down the road so told him I'd take care of the house ins which would basically even us out. I will document and make sure my L knows. Also, had S14 call him to ask for half the camp money and when H called he said he was not trying to be a butt (not sure why he said that) and that he could pay the whole amount...ok, so I will let him. He dropped the stuff off where I work and other people were in there and he seemed uncomfortable...he must have been cause I told him I'd leave his mail in my car and it was still sitting there when I got in it tonight! So, nothing really..just an interaction.

HB suggested that I start journaling and start with when I think H started his MLC and do a time line...I think she is just trying to keep me busy! lol

I also decided, read it somewhere, to write down everyday all the positives that I have had happen or noticed each day! Things as simple as "the sun is out today", my client was very happy with their haircut today, I didn't get any bills in the mail today etc.

I also ordered the book the Jouney From Abandoment to Healing.