He'd take the boys just to be spiteful....I don't think the judge would give them to him because of the hours my h works. Right now my h has very limited visitations because that is what the boys want...they don't want to be with him anymore than they have to. But should I dismiss my h may want more just to hurt me. He's spiteful that way...wants to teach me a lesson.
It's 80/20 right now because my h signed over everything...the house, the equity (which is at $20,000), all furnishings in my possession (though he took all our bedroom and living room stuff). I came out more ahead than he. Now if I dismiss it will become 50/50 and I can come after what he has now too...it could get real ugly. But he hasn't made it easy for me this past year either. I've shelled out $5000 on this attorney for his indecisiveness, refusal to sign, refusal to agree, his calls to my attorney, etc and the cost is still going up because now I must pay for the hearings on the 17th. If he maintains that he wants the d, then I will petition the judge for him to pay 1/2 of the attorney's fees for the past year to date.
I've got to leave now. I'll see him about 5pm today. I plan to act as if I don't know...see what he does. Don't know what else to do right now.
I'll let you know what happens after I get home at 7pm.
