You are right and those are all the things that are going through my head that I want to ask him when we talk. Why the sudden change...I want to know what he has been thinking that made him want to reconcile.
I didn't think about the email from my standpoint...How do I go back and retract talking face to face? Any advice?
I was thinking the SAME thing about the IC and the FT. I really don't trust him either and would like to see what effort he puts in. He even wants to move to where I am right now but my FT told me to not move in with my husband for AT LEAST 6 months once we decide to work on the marriage. My FT said that husband and I NEED to move to the same area while reconciling BUT he recommends separate living spaces for 6 months in order to see if changes in husband are lasting and not just temporary. I completely agree with FT; however, I do not want to be the one to relocate back to where husband is...I have no family or friends (well, one cousin that I am close with) and I just feel more connected in our hometown.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo
