Question for ya. What do you do when the WAS wants to come back and work on the marriage. This just happened to me. I moved out and then slowly started to pull away. Husband ended things with the OW but OW got pissed and called and told me everything after he ended it with her. I didn't speak to husband for a week and a half and I could tell that he was trying to feel me out via text messages to see how far gone I was from him.
Now today he tells me that he wants to do whatever needs to be done to save our marriage. Whatever I want he will do. How do you know when to give the WAS another chance? If I let him back to easily then what has he learned...NOTHING...I fear that he will think that he can just do it again and come back when he feels like it. So how do you get into piecing without risking the WAS doing it again?
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo
