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[ClingingToHope]

When STBXW and I first split up, D11 asked me if I'd get married again and I said, "yes" right away.

As these 11 months -- almost a year, wow -- have gone on, I've wondered about that a bit. I'm not worried about finding someone as much anymore. But finding the right person -- someone who has the patience to deal with soon to be teen daughters and someone who would be able to handle the balancing of an extended family -- is going to be a challenge.

But who knows. Marrying STBXW was a real shock. How we ended up together is a nice story that my daughters love to hear over and over again. I don't know how STBXW handles their questions, but they love asking things about the early days of our M. I think they want reassurance that we did love each other. I know I did and deep down I know STBXW did as well.

You are too young to rule anything out. Just learn from the mistakes you made this time around. Something great is going to happen to you, you just have to be able to recognize it and confident enough to go after it.