VETERANS VIEWS ON WALKING AWAY.

[gr8 day 2B alive]

Britt's post today sure stured up some excitement. I am so happy to see someone succeed. While reading her post something caught my attention.
When she finally said to he H that she is going to move on w/o him that seemed to be the turning point for her.
I am considering doing the same.

For those who know me know I have been here for some time and I feel my situation is stuck.
I recieve nothing from my W. We see each other twice a week for 10 minutes top and that is just to exchange the kids.
I have complimented her on her looks many times when we meet but I barely get a thanks.

Two months ago see saw a mediator so we could get a post nuptial agreement in Place "In case things don't wok out"

It seems like she is afraid to follow through with it b/c it has been two months and she hasn't contacted me when to meet her to discuss it.

My patience wears thin sometimes but I find away to regroup and refocus. However | i am at the point where I need to do things for me and my kids.

I am in the house and share the kids 50/50. she has move into an apartment.

I what to know what our financial situation is going to be so I could make a decision wether or not to sell the house and get something in only my name.

This is what I'm thinking now and any advice would be appreciation:

Contact a realtor and find out what I could get for the house. Used this information and tell W I want to sell the house and move on or buy her out.

I have been GAL and 180ing my butt off and feel the only way to get through to he is to tell her I'm not going to be this R anymore and deserve better.

Any way back to the title heading,

PDT said that most success stories when the LBS decides to be the WAS. Is there validity to this? I know Coach's story does no fit this senario but do most others do???