H left almost 3 weeks ago! Help! (long post)

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I was not quite in your shoes. But my only piece of advice is that it is still way too early! Within a couple of weeks of our separation my H talked separation of assets, banking issues, selling the house...blah, blah, blah. I chose to ignore, ignore, ignore. It is way way to early to be dealing with this stuff! Your H could be one very confused man, and has no idea what he is doing, or could think he knows what he's doing. But nobody knows this early in the game. You need to sit back and relax a bit. My MC gave me a timeline of 3 months before you take any kind of legal action and any action at all. Separation may be what he needs right now. Why rush into things? I was in your position as well. H was talking all the same things, dedicated to the end of our marriage. And where am I now? Happily married, presently looking for a bigger better home, and currently having discussions of making next child. If you need some hope, read my story...I'm in Newcomers...MY SUCCESS STORY...