So far today...This morning my W and I had a descent exchange of text messages. The subject was our dog but still at least she was sending/responding. I thought we were on a roll then she stopped responding so I got the hint and stopped myself.
My W came home from work and we went up to the hospital to visit FIL GF (she is still in ICU but coming around). There was a period while on on our up there that my W became really cold and did not initiate any conversation and when I had to speak to her all I would get is "umm hmmm" "emmm emmm." We got up to the hospital and there seemed to be a little tension toward me from her so I just kept my mouth shut and went with the flow. Talking when I had to.
Once we were in the hospital room we caught eyes a few times and smiled in happiness that FIL GF was doing better.
On the way back home. I decided not to talk as much as I have. My W did break the silence quite often to talk about things she read in the paper or heard/happened at work and I gave her my full attention, responding and letting her know I was very interested in what she was saying. My W even made a comment about getting something for the house ( I said nothing because it's like a trap) but it brought back some memories of something we did long ago and we both joked about it.
W is still cold but not as bitter. She is very short in her responses and stern. Other times we have a descent exchange.
I feel as if my W is so through with this R and is just coping with me the best she can until it's possible for her to move out.
I will have my goals posted and we'll see if we can achieve them.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
