I don't agree with this full court press trying to convince this guy that his wife is having an affair.
Pre-crisis, most of we guys would beat the crap out of anyone who suggested that our wife was likely sleeping around. Suddenly here, since they expressed their intention to end the marriage, we literally leap to the conclusion that there is automatically another person involved.
And yeah, I know how likely it is.
But I don't think it's fair to start planting thoughts in peoples minds. They'll figure it out soon enough, especially if they begin to see truly tangible signs suggesting so.
All of us who have been through the wars here are jaded in some respect, some more than others. That doesn't give us the right or even obligation to pass that jadedness on to the newcomers.
Dad, it is true that many of the stories on this particular forum wind up involving other people. Sometimes it was happening before they drop the bomb, sometimes it happens after the bomb is dropped. Let's hope that's not the case with you.
I think it's enough to tell you to keep your eyes open and don't treat your wife with the rose colored glasses. Eyes wide open and trust your gut.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
