CH, by trying to avoid being served, you may be aggravating your W even more, she will see you as controlling and that will just confirm her feeling that she is doing the right thing.
This will not bring you the result you want. Accept what she wants, you can't control her. You have to let go of the reins. Let her do what she thinks she must do. Sometimes they have to leave to come back. Remember that.
Concentrate on YOU and continue DB'ing. Show her some real changes in YOU. Do the opposite of what she would expect from you....
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
