WAW and me in 11th hour!!!!

[Ken62]

I cannot even fathom talking to my wife for FOUR HOURS while she is cheating on me.

Doing the "gay boyfriend" thing doesn't work, Ken. She's losing more respect for you when you do this (if you don't believe me, ask Sandi how a woman responds to this kind of "Nice Guy" stance).

I see a lot of "rescuing" behavior in your recounting of the MC session, how you jumped to your wife's defense repeatedly. I think you are, like me, generally a "rescuer/pleaser" type, and those CAN be good qualities, if kept in check, but they can also be self-destructive and real attraction-killers if you take them too far.

Puppy

Sandi,

I really would like to hear your stance on this.

Ken