SCH, I totally understand that you don't want to "blow" any chances at R. What if you hired a sitter to be with the kids while you are gone?

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO