If he loved you in the right way, he'd put a stop to it. I'm going through the same thing myself, I would encourage you not to make him refile, that would be counterproductive.
Do you want to be with someone who can say those warm and fuzzy things to your face one minute and then turn around and encourage the D to go through the next day? Obviously thats not the true love its gonna take to turn this thing around..
Your best approach is to allow things to unfold as they are, DB for yourself and know you will survive after the dust clears. Some WA's need legal closure despite feeling whatever, before they can come back. Don't ask me why, its just the way it is.
Don't stand in his way, be a person he'd want to stand in front of if the show were on the other foot.
Now is the time to remain calm and confident, no panic, you can handle it, he's going to notice how you react, so keep your cool as best you can, its not the end of the universe, just another step in the process.
