It seems that I do not see any results from anything I do. It just seems to go from bad to worse. I guess I am not do this whole DBing thing very well. I guess it does not always work for everyone. I am still working on myself within the confines of my sitch. It is does make it easy to follow everything I have been learning here.
LSG,
Some times when us betrayeds are making analysis like you are, we are suffering from "analysis paralisys". It also means we are being affected too much by the situation. Maybe we should back way off and focus on GAL, like as a huge priority. Finding many things to do outside and away from the primary residence, things we have fun and take pleasure and satisfaction in. That we do it, not to show a stronger image to the WAS, but for ourself. In the end we need to not be mentally concerned about the image to the WAS, but simply take care of our self and treat ourself well. If they will come back, they will come back.
