Kevin, That is so very awesome! You really do sound like a changed man! Wonderful!
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M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
Thanks. I took last night off but took D8 swimming with me today. I swam laps for an hour and a half and I am worn out. D8 swam some laps with me then went into the other pool with the other kids and made some friends. D12 wasn't feeling to hot so didn't go with us.
It is a beautiful evening outside tonight. It is the kind of night you have dinner out on a patio at a resturant. Not doing that tonight though.
Tomorrow the girls and I are going to mass, then swimming again, then to a movie. Should be a full day.
W is looking at houses to rent tomorrow in the plano area. This could get tricky once she moves at the end of May as far as the kids and school and work goes timing wise. We won't be so close to each other. Not looking forward to it. I am moving up closer in July though, but will still be further away from work for both of us. But W says she is going to look for another job once she moves anyways and I am guessing closer to Plano.
Nothing like being worn out on a saturday night and I still have to go grocery shopping here in a bit. I won't have time tomorrow. My girls don't want to get back out tonight so we are just renting a movie to watch here at the apartment tonight once I return from grocery shopping.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Went to mass today. Then took my girls swimming. I swam laps for an hour and a half. Feels great. I cooked some lentils for dinner and put in some garlic and spagetti sauce. It was ok. Need to find a better recipe for lentils.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Sounds like you are doing really well Kevin!! You sound really happy.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
To say that life is just dandy would be over doing it. But I am living life the best I can. I still have moments where I want things to be fixed. But I try to make the best out of whatever I have to work with and the rest has to be left up to God. He is taking care of me and I am applying what I am given the best way possible for the most part.
My life is a good life. It could always be worse and has been before. But it is getting better and I am not sitting around just doing nothing anymore.
Gotta make the most and best of what you are given in life.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Seems like you are getting better, and I'm happy for you. Could use some advice. I'm on MLC now under Goodfight. If you get a chance could really use some advice.
I wish you the best. This isn't an easy road. I don't know that I have the best advice to give for your situation.
I know with mine, other than friendly coparenting, nothing has changed.
I have no idea how to take it to the next level other than praying for His will be done, being patient and giving it time. I am civil and friendly with my wife and that is about the best I can offer right now as far as her being willing to accept at this time.
In the mean time I have myself and my 2 daughters to take care of and build as much of a life as I can with them.
Kevin
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Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Lentil soup : lentils, water, one piece of garlic, daphne, minced onion, olive oil, one teaspoon of ketchup, one teaspoon of vinegar, salt, oreganon. Boil them till they are cooked. It's a soup. It's how we eat lentils in Greece. K
Went to mass today. Then took my girls swimming. I swam laps for an hour and a half. Feels great. I cooked some lentils for dinner and put in some garlic and spagetti sauce. It was ok. Need to find a better recipe for lentils.
Kevin
Kalni's recipe is great and easy, too. Another you could try is to cook the lentil to just done. Drain and toss some olive oil, salt, pepper on them. Cool them in the fridge for about an hour. Then toss some balsamic in them to taste. Eat chilled or room temp. Good salad. Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
not to hijack this thread but sounds like you are making fukas- phoenitically spelled.
youngest son loves to eat them and say them.-thinks hes getting away with something.
kev- read your thread and applaud your determination. but at what point does another lady enter the picture.
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