is my WAH in an MLC (need some experts!)?

[pandora]

thanks Trent! i read this article and it was really helpful. i really appreciate the concern you've had for my sitch.

to everyone, is it possible to come to a point where you're EXHAUSTED? i had a really quiet moment yesterday where i just had a chance to think calmly (most of my thinking is on overdrive)...and i kind of realized everything will be ok. i've had this feeling before and probably aligned with the LBS stages in the thread above where you cycle through feelings a lot. however, this time, i feel like i hit a turning point. i think with everything you all have said so far and also turning to God sincerely, it made me really think. sort of came to a peace with this awful situation and i felt like i could fathom the idea of letting go. now it's quite possible that by tomorrow, i may be nuts again but at least it's nice to feel that i've come to a point where i can accept things as they are.

when i came home, i realized i was tired of trying...anything really. i've been working SO hard for the last year almost and i'm so SO tired. i mean ultimately, whatever is going to happen, will happen. it's in God's ultimate wisdom and there's nothing more to it.

i need to process this and then move on and GAL.

IF those changes were for you, then they will stick.

i am hoping these changes are for me. to me, being a good wife and understanding a man's needs are critical to a good rel'p. whether it's this rel'p or another...i'm glad i have really good info. and plus a lot of what i've learned is great for any rel'p, not just marriages.