Mila, I guess he understands, he would instead just come to my city to hang around the house or go out for something to eat (very small town, not much to do).
But, see, he's "out there" in the big world now, and wants to do these sorts of things (like go to openings) so if it's not me, it will likely end up being someone else. So I feel like I should for "us".
He seems to have completely abrogated his responsibilities to his children, except when he has them on visitation, in which case he's disneyland Dad. They can feel this, that he's being an irresponsible parent, but he (WH) doesn't seem to understand it anymore.
