I'm pissed he's making you sad! Remind me if you've consulted an L, though. Can he legally lock you out of the bank accounts??? Won't there be repercussions for doing that? Have you asked your L what if he does that? You need to have some protection here and know where you stand if you think he's likely to do this.
When the men on the chessboard Get up and tell you where to go; And you've just had some kind of mushroom And your mind is moving slow; Go ask Alice... I think she'll know.
