Yesterday on Sunday we went out to eat and then to a nice hotel. She wanted to ML but I was hesitant (due to the infidelity and herpes).
She had given full custody of SD8 to paternal grandmother. I almost walked out of the hotel. She still says she’s a bad mother and SD8 needs to be with paternal grandmother. I ask her if she’s going to IC yet and she sas no.I shake my head. We watch tv and cuddle til we fall asleep.
She calls and texts but I don’t answer. I pretend to not get them and text her stating oh you can’t call?
Maybe it's just me but I see a bazillion contradictions and inconsistencies...why exactly did your 'date' involve a hotel? Esp if you didn't want to be intimate (and rightly so btw)...
You were upset over a major custody issue and then just let it go to cuddle and fall asleep? And yes it is good not to have angry outbursts but at some point there will have to be another solution besides walking away during a disagreement...
Finally if she called and texted, and you ignored them, then why text her asking why she can't call you? I am confused...
