Hi G, thinking of you. The feedback you got seems really positive to me and confirms your gut instinct that you two can work this out. I don't really see him settling into another life so soon. Don't feel you need to rush into action and communicate something - if you have told your H that you love him and don't want D and that you are open to reconcilliation when the time is right, what more can you say? His wish to send a pressie for the baby is naive. But it's a positive gesture - but see it for what it is. It's ALL he is capable of right now. As you heard, he is crying, unsettled. This is all good. Let him work through his confusion. You need to practice loving detachment durung this time and keep your bright and strong outlook on life going meanwhile. I will post a link to an article on this.
For what it is worth, I feel a lot of hope for your sitch because you are not losing your control, like i did in the beginning - oh la la!
talk soon (thanks for posting on my thread & for the positive thoughts -really appreciate it!)
