reconciliation after divorce?

[any chance?]

So now I find out that she started talking with the OM, who she says she hasn't spoken to in weeks/months for the last several days while reaching the decision of the D. Daily meetings/conversations. He is helping her work toward D in my opinion. Want to confront both of them, but not sure that is the way to go. Really in a bad, bad place here. She IMMEDIATELY runs to the OM. She has probably been with him the entire time. I am such a fool.