Originally Posted By: grasshopper
I honestly don't know what to think. What I kept asking her was why all the clandestine activity if this was all innocent.


I would ask the same. Having been down this road before you SHOULD be asking these questions.

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Why won't this guy meet me if he has no ulterior motives? She said he was scared of me. She said there is NOTHING romantic about it.


Hmmm....Why do you think he would be scared?

Your a guy... I'm a guy. Do you honestly think this D Bag has no ulterior motives?

Good for you for taking a stand and telling her this isn't acceptable.

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She said she understood where I was coming from but that she was that way because of how I "always" act, and have acted with friends of hers. We've covered that earlier in the thread. Some validity to that point but in the end


No. Your past actions do not give her a free pass to have an inappropriate relationship of any kind. Even if she says nothing is going on, her meeting him for dinner and not being up front and honest with you is a no no IMO.



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So, bad news, I lost my cool. Good news is that I think I may have started the foundation for my new boundaries.


Keep your cool next time. smile Man whatever you do though, stick to your guns regarding whatever boundaries you set. Do not waiver.


Don't stand still.