I need help in the biggest way. I feel so helpless

[timehealsall]

Hey everyone.

Here is a little update in this thread

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...383#Post1978383

and I also wanted to add that this is where we are at right now.

Since we started therapy, DH seems somewhat distant in terms of affection. No touching or anything, unless I initiate it. Should I NOT be doing anything? One of his big reasons for doing what he did is because he said I lacked affection towards him and didn't make him feel loved or wanted or "like a man." He told the therapist last friday that he wants to get a legal separation in order to "miss me and perhaps be able to appreciate what he has" and also so he can go back overseas to tend to business without me "fighting with him everyday." which is an exaggeration and the arguments were because of him.

What do I do? He is too focused on our financial situation to really do anything or handle and or work on our marriage.

Please help. I want to be sure I'm doing the right things here.

Thanks!