Thanks for the support. I don't want a divorce or separation. I'll keep what you said in mind and if she really feels like she has to go through with it, she needs to be the one that sorts out the details and arrangements. I know that I have to walk a fine line between making it clear that I understand that space is ok and important and coming off sounding like I don't want a separation because I'm too weak to deal with it or that I'd fall apart if she wasn't around.