Great articles:

http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/articles.html

originally posted by JacT. esp check out the articles on Self-focus:

http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/self-focus.html

I think the above articles are quite applicable to most LBS, whether or not you believe in MLC as a major cause of M crisis.

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