reconciliation after divorce?

[dday101798]

I'm going to be point blank blunt here, I'm known for swinging 4x4's or 2x6's, the common 2x4 just don't don't cut it for me, and I'm in a real bad mood right now, so nothing personal:

Do you have a heart?

If the tables were turned and she had the affair all those years ago (and don't even pedel any jive that it was only for a month) and you had to bury that within you you knew, you're wife lied continually and probably called you nuts and all to cover it up, and you harbored the hurt, the rage, the embaressment, the depression, for soooo long that the only way to find your self peace is to leave the situation and divorce her, wouldn't you be the slightest bit upset when she agrees to it instead of saying something like "I'm ever so sorry, I want to make things right, let's find a way to live our lives without this looming around".

Wouldn't YOU be upset?????