Quote: After an affair can you really ever rebuild the trust?
depends on if you're willing to or not.
Quote: Do you ever get rid of the little thoughts in the back of your head?
I would imagine that the "little thoughts" may always be there until you face them and tell them to screw or decide to wallow in them
Quote: Does the alien ever really go away or does it just hide and wait for the next bit of hardship to rear its ugly little head again.
I suppose a was would say...do they (the lbs) ever actually stay with the changes they've made or do they just wait for the next opportunity to resort back to old ways.
don't take this post the wrong way just trying to make you think a bit.