reconciliation after divorce?

[any chance?]

The fact that I agreed to the D sent her into a total tailspin. I suspect it is not the time to retract my agreement, and that doing so would make matters much worse at this point. Do I reach out (which my hearts wants to do) or leave her alone? There are numerous R issues I want to talk about, but I sense that doing so would be seen as pursuing and trying to convince her to change her mind (which is what I want to happen, but I have my doubts). Do I give this time? I am lost here.