Is this disrespectful or am I making too much of it?
When WH left, he took my pic off his cell phone, and changed the ring-tone to an emergency sound. When we tried reconciling he put it to normal. Lately he has it again without a picture, and again with the emergency sound. He thinks it's funny.
So he wants to reconcile, but he's still belittling me and finding it funny.
He wants to go on a date, but it's in his city, and I don't have babysitting, so I'd have to leave the kids in his apartment until late at night then afterwards by the time I get them packed up and home they will be sooo very tired for school the next day. But if I don't go, it's an opening night thing, he would take someone else probably. That's what men do.
Kids are starting to rebel and miss their friends in the old city. WHAT IS HE THINKING? WHAT AM I DOING?