I don't think that the WAS should be given any more power...that's all..I think that at some point and time they should feel the same pain we felt..
and IMO..us giving them a kick in the azzz to help them feel some of that pain is not a bad thing..
I am ALL FOR Co-parenting. ...anything else...really..I could care less..I'm not their caregiver, not their nuturerer, not their "friend" to tell their problems to. .I'm not their financial advisor...