Eric, SA & kissak, thank you for sending me your good wishes.
Eric I hear you I'm not sure that I deserve that "distinction"...but thank you...I'm happy if I can "inspire"
Pretty quiet day today, I'm still struggling with my sickness but did manage to do some work.
H called in the afternoon and said "I'm not sure why I'm calling...just feel kind of claustrophobic in here...." I said "Well I'm serving dinner in about 1/2 Hr come and join us if you want". He accepted and had dinner with D & D's BF & I. Left shortly after, since I was kind of loosing energy and wanted to rest. That's all for today folks...snail's pace
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M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
A very interesting choice of words...snail's pace. As I think about this I realize that we all should learn to slow down a bit. Rome was not built in a day..."all good things come to those that wait" - I think I've just realized how important it is to take things slow. Thank you for this Mila. Thank you.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Mila, sounds like you are doing so well with all of this, including the snail's pace. Being a patient person is so helpful in MLC - I am LEARNING to be a patient person!:)
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
Thank you I just wish I could learn to be more patient with my kids!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
I think this is probably a good thing, in a funny sort of way. I mean, here his is, thinking about you, coming around, when you're not even feeling so well. Imagine how blown away he'll be when you recover !!
Countdown - It's been a week since H announced that the affair is over and that he wants to R.
Had a business meeting with H today. The poor guy is starting to feel sick as well (this bronchitis is sweeping through the whole family).
H gave me some utility bills pertaining to his apartment and said that maybe he could submit his last flight ticket to see OW as a business expense...he was working there after all (what work...servicing a client?...lets not go there). I said "No way, I don't even want to see that bill". He said "Why does it matter anymore? OK...OK...I suspected that you may feel this way. I'll just pay it with my money".
Fine...you do that.
Since he brought up the subject of OW, I said that I would be willing to send her a business letter terminating our services hosting her website. H said that it's already taken care of. Our IT guy is contacting her and transferring the site to another provider. Good...he took care of that.
I also told him that we need to talk about our finances and right now it's kind of complicated since we don't know for sure what's happening with the two of us. He said "but we agreed that we will take it slow". I said I know we did, but that we have to deal with some of the financial issues in the mean time. He said "I'm reading the books that you gave me" (After the affair and one more). Great, I'm happy. Oh...and he kept calling me sweetie the whole time.
Oh and another thing. OW's H called me this morning....do I want this? He actually upsets me when he talks about his W and what she is telling him about the affair, and her depression...and how she keeps thinking about my H. I don't know... I guess there is this morbid curiosity on my part to know how they are doing. I'm thinking that if they are doing well there is less chance that she will contact H. But they will be going through up & downs as we will and it will probably just make me upset and insecure. Hopefully he will stop calling once things settle. I think that it makes OW H nervous that my H is not moving back home right away.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
I'm not sure that I deserve that "distinction"...but thank you...I'm happy if I can "inspire" 
but did manage to do some work. 
