Very sad, but this woman has been fighting this for years. It was time. It's just sad because her boys are the same ages as mine. They're not ready to be without Mommy yet.
Good news! I got all of my phone interviews out of the way this am. That has to be one of the worst things I have to do. I hate it. It is just too darn long to be that nice.
And, I got my run in... PEARL, it's 30 minutes this week! WARNING! It was WINDY today, so I thought I'd be cold and wore a sweatshirt. DUMB
Off to shower and a nail appointment. I need to find someone who can come here to do my nails, and my highlights. I can't stand to sit that long. I go insane! Worst client ever! That is NOT relaxing to me.
Sweatin'! Gotta go.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
Off to shower and a nail appointment. I need to find someone who can come here to do my nails, and my highlights. I can't stand to sit that long. I go insane! Worst client ever! That is NOT relaxing to me.
Sweatin'! Gotta go.
Wow! You are a bundle of energy! I LOVE going to get my hair done. I used to only go to Aveda salons bc I loved the tea they served! Right now I go to a cosmetology school (!!) bc my kids' babysitter is a student there and wanted some clientele that she knew! Fun to have a 19 yr old keep your hair looking mod...however it takes 4 hours bc she has to run every decision by her instructor. But then again it is like getting 2 stylists for the price of <1! (seriously, haircut and highlight for $60!!)
Anyway love being there for hours, I buy a few trashy gossip magazines and bring my starbucks and I am happy to relax...
So how cute are you today? If you look good you will feel better!
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You just caused me to snort! LOL Are you talkin' about our IM convo from a few months back? Well, if you're talkin' about that, then, what Fergie's talkin' about (and my confidence build by "G") may just work together! Question... angle?
ST, you portray an angelic wife and mom. NOT! LoL
HUGS, my mentor friend!
haha! and of course that's what I'm talking about!!
and you definitely better tell me when you finally do it cause I will be jumping up and down!!
so proud of you with the running! I did go out last week and did 5 minutes, then walked a few, then ran 10...the most I've done I think. was thinking about you too!!
sorry I'm not on here much, but you know how to find me
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Hey, Rocked!!! How are you? I need to catch-up. HUGS, my friend!
BBJ!!! It might be more fun, if I were sitting there if I had a friend with. I have a hard time sitting still, doing ONE thing, etc... Just learning to relax again. Cute? Hmmmm... I had a few compliments! The purple dress was a hit.
Di! and Flo! Thanks for looking in! I'm really good today. Funny thing about Tuesdays...
ST - Boy, do we need to talk. I will, finally, call you.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
#1 - I LOVE to be in the field selling still. I really need to stop grieving the loss of this M/R, and pouting at home. I thrive on being in front of people, and interaction. #2 - I like wearing purple. #3 - My children have (so far) grown into such amazing little (and big) beings. I done good. (Not giving H credit... LOL) #4 - I have really great friendships w/women. I have three best friends, who I can count on through about anything. Tonight I confided in the TOP BFF about everything that I've shared here, plus some I haven't (LOL), and cried, laughed, stomped, and hugged the whole time. #5 - I have really great friendships w/men. I have three emails from local men (TODAY! WEIRD), who are truly great friends, just concerned about me. I saw all three this weekend, post PI bomb. I must not have looked good.) #6 - I haven't initiated a call to my H, non-child or logistic related, since December. (I like that. He's occupying less of my head space.) #7 - I haven't lost touch w/my sexuality, considering the past two years... #8 - I really love the f*ck out of running.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Wow Mindfull you are really taking this well! You are a really strong woman. I have never posted to you before but I will be checking in on you from now on.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
I LOVE going to get my hair done. I used to only go to Aveda salons bc I loved the tea they served! 