Well, I've been holding off on posting, waiting for the other shoe to drop....and it looks like it's not going to (at least not until after I post this. ).
Briefly, I got so busy at work that getting my XW's birth cert and Social Security card back to her went WAY down toward the bottom of my list of priorities until the 3rd week in March, when I remembered that she needed them before the end of March, and I was about to leave town, and not get back until the beginning of April. I hurriedly wrote her an email the day before I was to leave, explaining the situation and saying that I could drop them off at her apartment before I left (and while I was there, I could pick up my mother's Corningware that went curiously missing when she moved out. Of course I didn't SAY it exactly that way....) Naturally, she refused and stated that she didn't have the Corningware, and that it must still be packed away in the attic. Then she shot back a blurb about "If you'd rather me not come to your office, then you can either come to my office or we can exchange them by mail.", to which I replied that I had no problem with her coming by my office, but that she would need to do it that day- before I left for my trip at 5. She then asked me to mail them to her work address. I told her that I could do that, but that I'd really hate for her to lose these items in the mail, because it's everything that any lowlife would need to impersonate her and/or screw up her credit, or worse. Then I asked her when she COULD get to my work, and she replied, "I'm really busy and am not going to be able to get there before 6:30. So don't worry about it - I'll get them from you when you get back. I can make other arrangements for the university. Drive safe!".
WTF? If you could make other arrangements, why the contact?
It's been 2 weeks since I've been back: still no follow-up request from her.
PATIENCE AND FORTITUDE CONQUER ALL THINGS. -Ralph Waldo Emerson
DBing and MLC take their toll....Please provide exact CHANGE. -Jimbo
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