Regardless of your choice in the end, you will be at peace about it. Good advice her, detach, let God do his work. Find your happy place, validate, not agree with but validate her feelings. Stick to the plan and you will get through this.
On a side note the Bible has in its pages nearly every psychological concept. Including the DB concepts. PMA, turning the check, calling out the sinner, drawing a line in the sand. 180's it is all in there, go figure ! Worded different but still there!
Yep, when I get there I will be at peace with it, knowing that I did everything I possibly could.
In the end it's her soul, and she's responsible for it. I am very concerned about it, even if she was just a friend and not my wife, so sometimes I have a hard time not commenting about it. But I've stated my piece and I have to just stop. I've said before I'm butting out and letting God handle it. I just need to remember to follow my own advice. Seems I slip up during the valleys of this peak and valley roller coaster ride. I have to recognize the valleys for what they are and keep my mouth shut.
She knows she is doing wrong and that what she's doing conflicts with her faith. It's up to her to stop.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09