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Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) BobbiJo #1980935 04/13/10 04:16 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA M mishka422 Member
mishka422 Member M Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA	ROTFLMAO! T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) BobbiJo #1980962 04/13/10 04:39 PM
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smith18 Member S Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 5,992	Get him a t-shirt as a reward for getting the kids to school with clothes on their backs... http://images9.cafepress.com/nocache/product/391763059v2147483647_480x480_Front_Color-White.jpg

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) smith18 #1980964 04/13/10 04:40 PM
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mishka422 Member M Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA	Good one Kerry! T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) smith18 #1980974 04/13/10 04:43 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa B BobbiJo OP Member
OP BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	Originally Posted By: KerryK Get him a t-shirt as a reward for getting the kids to school with clothes on their backs... http://images9.cafepress.com/nocache/product/391763059v2147483647_480x480_Front_Color-White.jpg That is too funny bc it is so close to the truth...my first reaction after the second message re. how they looked was to reply, "They look great you did a good job daddy" But then I realized I didn't want to call him a good dad cause even though he is taking care of them good daddy's don't cheat on their wives and leave them.... You know I was posting on a newby thread and it reminded me of the times last August when Dan was texting me that he HAD to get a D bc he COULD NOT DEAL WITH ME ANYMORE....he didn't want to have anything to do with me..... And yet here he is seeking me out for validation... Crazy train.............. Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) BobbiJo #1980976 04/13/10 04:46 PM
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OP BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	So I just replied, "They looked cute as always I was only at board meeting with R for Speech Kids, so I didn't stay. I do know they were only discussing revenue not expense so no news on my job." He replied back immediately, "Did Sydney show you her flower" Um wha????? Cause I went in her classroom for a visit?? Um, nooo. Just replied back "Nope" He replies "Oh, because I picked a flower for her this morning" Geez is he trying to show off? Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) BobbiJo #1980979 04/13/10 04:46 PM
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sandycay Member S Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,049 Pacific Northwest (WA)	Don't validate him. Don't answer. It doesn't need answering. The kids don't care. He is reaching out to speak to you everyday... have you noticed this? Your not ready to be his friend quite yet. Gotta love Sydney! M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) BobbiJo #1980982 04/13/10 04:47 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA M mishka422 Member
mishka422 Member M Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA	Good GOD! He really is looking for connection and validation from you because he doesn't get it from anywhere else. SAD SAD SAD!!! T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) sandycay #1980984 04/13/10 04:48 PM
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OP BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	Actually I didn't really think of it as him reaching out to ME...figured he was trying to make himself feel better. I guess I am sort of looking down on it like a show I am watching or a game...does that sound bad? Not upset by what he does just mildy amused Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) BobbiJo #1980985 04/13/10 04:49 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA M mishka422 Member
mishka422 Member M Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA	But he knows where he can usually get the validation he is craving. T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!

Re: It's raining, it's pouring.... :) mishka422 #1980994 04/13/10 04:54 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa B BobbiJo OP Member
OP BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	True....that is why I was sure not to say "good daddy", or pat him on the head, or give him a biscuit... But you are right I suppose even acknowledging the question was giving him my attention, which apparently he wanted? It just goes against my nature to be asked a direct question and ignore it, from anybody not just him...however if it is not necessary I will try not to comment... Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

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