I'm confused! WAS

[gr8 day 2B alive]

Lori,
sorry you are here. I am by no means an expert here but I want to let you know others will be around soon.

What I can tell you is I had/have a problem with anxiety and maybe some depression. They both take a toll on the marriage.
I didn't realize my problem until my W left and it took me a good 4 months to realize I had these problems

Try not to get depressed b/c your H is. My W did and it brought our R to an end.

If your H is suffering from depression it needs to be addressed and you will have to be strong enough not to feel hopeless.

I'm not sure how to handle your trip so I will leave that up to the experts here.

keep posting your feelings and sitchuation.