talking to my buddy who is going through the same situation. His wife wants him back and has ended her affair and did NC with Om. my friend needs more time to see if he really wants to try and make it work again. They had a fight last night and after that she called her OM for the first time in 1 month and talked for an hr. He is pissed and wants their contact done. I said exposure to OM W might be what you need to extinguish their flame. She is making threats to do some really dirty things if he does expose. Any thoughts? I told him do it, they are the ones that made the poor choices, but I wanted to run it by the experts first.