this is what got us into this whole mess with SD8 in the first place. WHen we took her to CPS there was supposed to be nothing but a 72 hour evaluation.
They tried to convince her I did something to SD8 (although we had taken her to the hospital and it showed no sexual abuse or physical abuse) and she signed documents then.
Then they came to the house 3 days later with a notary public and made me leave my residence. I was outside with police officer talking and all she had to do was state he did not want them in her house.
She had a seizure the previous day and was totally out of it. They still had her sign all of these ridiculous documents giving custody to the state temporarily.
Then for months her caseworker avoided her and we did not find out where sd8 was. Finally got public defender and got the services for reconciliation because we just barely prevented paternal grandmother from getting custody of SD8 in october.
All of a sudden she's down there by herself on different medication having eegs done for her epilepsy and she signs away her rights?
paternal grandmother knows I'm not an idiot and wants to have her way. She gets a ridiculous amount of benefits. She gets food stamps, free child care money, foster care money, tax breaks etc etc.
Yet WAW thinks she's doing this out of the goodness of her heart. LOL CPs tried to call her before they took custody we called several times and left voice mails and she did not answer. She purposely waited to be her foster mother.
She does not put stipulations on SD8 father though. He's thousands of miles away and he can talk visit see and doesn't have to send a cent.
He blatantly refused to do any services to even attempt to keep sd8 out of foster care. Yet the man who was taking care of SD8 is "the bad guy"
the next step is to try to hook WAW with SD8 horrendous bio dad or she wont be allowed to see her at all if we do not stop this adoption.
It sickens and disgusts me especially considering SD8 father is the man who gave WAW herpes.
hopefully we can get S8 TESTED (paternal gradmother doesn't believe it) to see if she has it.
WAW is all of a sudden convinced that due to her epilepsy and all that other crap she can't take care of SD8. there was never a problem before.
Toys and possessions do not make a happy child. SD8 is angry at me (paternal grandmother told her i'm the reason she's gone) and we were supposed to have counseling sessions to address that.
WAW is walking on egg shells doing everything to not piss this woman off and begged me not to call and unload on her or I will make it worse.
I haven't called but I honestly thought about it. I'm calling lawyers and talking to my lawyers (disability lawyers who will take the case for free)
to get this overturned. I'm also looking into ADULT PROTECTIVE SERVICES and taking advantage of disabled individuals because she's doing this on purpose
Last edited by james217; 04/13/1003:32 PM.
waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32 together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010
children SD (8) S (10) S (3) need help from anyone with my sitch