I'm back to posting from the phone and again, thanks for the advice. I just set-up detailed billing on my cell service so I can track calls/texts. Our home computer just caught a virus and has to be repaired by a shop. Really bad timing because now I can't use a keylogger. Last night she was using my daughters laptop but I coudn't see what she was doing. I fear private messages on FB but hope not. If she's posting from work I won't know. I guess I'll just be watching very closely.
Still hard to breathe and of course eating or sleeping is a lost cause. Thanks again!