If you have reasonable cause to believe that your marriage and your family are being threatened by a PREDATOR
That is where it is different - he doesn't have any reasonable cause yet.
I disagree. There are some major red flags, like his wife's unwillingness to hug him, her FB use and question, and some others that I picked up on.
I think the Sprint call logs should tell us what we need to know, one way or another. If they are negative, he could decide to look no further, but I think that one step is a reasonable precaution, considering what's at stake here.
If you have reasonable cause to believe that your marriage and your family are being threatened by a PREDATOR
That is where it is different - he doesn't have any reasonable cause yet.
I disagree. There are some major red flags, like his wife's unwillingness to hug him, her FB use and question, and some others that I picked up on.
I think the Sprint call logs should tell us what we need to know, one way or another. If they are negative, he could decide to look no further, but I think that one step is a reasonable precaution, considering what's at stake here.
Puppy
with sprint, I think he can look online and check the call history. You can also request the call history at a local sprint branch. THen he can sometimes find out where she is and who she is calling by copying and pasting the number into google if it's a restaurant, business, hotel, or landline it will let him know. If it's an unrecognized cell phone he can call private and pretend to be taking a survey. Just a few things I did to find out.
PDT it's been over 48 hours dude. I hope and think you may be surprised with my sitch. That's if you want to look
waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32 together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010
children SD (8) S (10) S (3) need help from anyone with my sitch
There are some major red flags, like his wife's unwillingness to hug him,
I didn't always want to hug my wife.
I am now using FB a bit, but that all started around the same time I thought D was inevitable.
I think if you're looking for something, you'll find something. It is in the interpretation that can lay the blessing or punishment. Keep your eyes open, yes. But if you think you're safe, show her the man you and she have always dreamed of and you used to be in many ways. Even if there is an affair, she needs to want you to come back.
I'm back to posting from the phone and again, thanks for the advice. I just set-up detailed billing on my cell service so I can track calls/texts. Our home computer just caught a virus and has to be repaired by a shop. Really bad timing because now I can't use a keylogger. Last night she was using my daughters laptop but I coudn't see what she was doing. I fear private messages on FB but hope not. If she's posting from work I won't know. I guess I'll just be watching very closely.
Still hard to breathe and of course eating or sleeping is a lost cause. Thanks again!
I'm back to posting from the phone and again, thanks for the advice. I just set-up detailed billing on my cell service so I can track calls/texts. Our home computer just caught a virus and has to be repaired by a shop. Really bad timing because now I can't use a keylogger. Last night she was using my daughters laptop but I coudn't see what she was doing. I fear private messages on FB but hope not. If she's posting from work I won't know. I guess I'll just be watching very closely.
Still hard to breathe and of course eating or sleeping is a lost cause. Thanks again!
Quick question. I've never been around a keylogger. Does anyone have a suggestion for a good program? Will anyone other than me know that it's installed on a computer? If not I could sneek it on my daughters laptop when she's not home until we get our own machine running. Thanks!
There are some major red flags, like his wife's unwillingness to hug him,
I didn't always want to hug my wife.
I am now using FB a bit, but that all started around the same time I thought D was inevitable.
I think if you're looking for something, you'll find something. It is in the interpretation that can lay the blessing or punishment. Keep your eyes open, yes. But if you think you're safe, show her the man you and she have always dreamed of and you used to be in many ways. Even if there is an affair, she needs to want you to come back.
It's a physiological fact that people in affairs are largely chemically BLOCKED from "seeing the man (she) always dreamed of." Their brain is awash in PEAs and it distorts their perceptions and ability to receive the betrayed spouse's attempts to meet their emotional needs.
Look, I'm not trying to argue with you OTMT; this is all MOOT if a little intel turns up nothing, and then DCB can have some peace of mind. But in 15,000 posts here over several years, I have yet to ever have someone say later "I wish I had been LESS aggressive with the advice you gave me," but have -- sadly -- had dozens that said "I wish I would have been more wary, sooner."
Better to be overdressed than underdressed, as it were.
Quick question. I've never been around a keylogger. Does anyone have a suggestion for a good program? Will anyone other than me know that it's installed on a computer? If not I could sneek it on my daughters laptop when she's not home until we get our own machine running. Thanks!
eBlaster. It's virtually undetectable. It will e-mail reports to you, and you can even set it up to catch certain keywords ("husband" would be a good one, for instance; "divorce" is another) that if she types them, it won't wait for its next scheduled e-mail to you, it will do it immediately.
