In a nutshell, what is "replay" and "touch and go"?
On your first thread I gave you the MLC resources. If you read the 6 stages of MLC by Heart Blessing it will explain what replay is. After you read that I will try to answer any further questions that you have. "Replay" is one of the stages and the most common in MLC. Most people on this board spouses are in this stage.
A touch and go is a time of clarity in the crisis followed by a trip back into the MLC tunnel. All of MLC is driven by some form of depression and it colors everything that happens.
You can't take their depression personally. It makes them do CRAZY things. Depression is a mental illness. Mostly everything that they do can be explained by this.
That is why we tell you to detach, GAL and focus on yourself not them.
