Originally Posted By: robx
so what happened to the money issue for both of you?
you mentioned that you went out to a nice hotel and you went out to eat, I remembered you mentioning that neither of you have jobs, the savings have dwindled down to very little and possibly that you have creditors chasing after you because of high debt or something?


I have been saving money for awhile now. from my last job. WAW has money to more than survive. She is still drawing her unemployment. She just does not manage very well. She is trying to keep up with SIL on fashion and all that crap. Also because her esteem is low and she's now realizing the clothes she is putting on is not going to fix her heart and she needs to manage better. She always said I was a tight wad. I'm not tight I just don't like having our life savings depleted.

WAW and I also run a business and I got lucky with a client. My parents also have been helping. They helped alot last year. I'm going to go back to school and get my grant money back once I talk to the dean and resolve this probationary situation. Then I can go to college for free with my blind waiver and have my grant money.

The way that everything was set up. We'd both be in school. I'd have grant money pt job and go to counseling and she'd do the same. I'm still waiting on my disability hearing as well.

I had alot of fraud on our accounts. Where we were living at. Alot of bank cards and information got stolen from about 20 people. The manager was in on it as well and we had to file alot of reports.

WAW has one major bill and that's her 5 figure college loan. She has a few minor bills but that's ok.

I have a four figure student loan and a few bills. I plan on disputing them to clear up our credit. She wanted me to look into that the other day.

I'm setting up interview after interview. I hope to have a job really really soon. WAW is depressed about SD8 but she better see the light soon or this can turn really really bad.


waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32
together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010

children SD (8) S (10) S (3)
need help from anyone with my sitch