How do you balance boundaries with not being a door mat?

I know what doesn't work. Her staying out until after 1:30 is something we talked about. She knows it isn't right but she did it anyway. Should I not have said anything and let her think I am alright with it?

I don't want my W to leave the house. I know it is harder to DB with her gone.

How can I get back on track?


Me-43
W-36
TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

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