H4L, this isn't as bad as it seems. You had a good session, and he must have been drawn to you.
It's typical for them to "go back" after any internal movement forward. There is a battle going on in there. They want you to change, they hope, but then they don't want to hope and it be for nothing.
Start to expect it--it is a typical pattern. A great site that will give you some help is www.fightbusters.com. Lots of very useful info there!!