If you have reasonable cause to believe that your marriage and your family are being threatened by a PREDATOR
That is where it is different - he doesn't have any reasonable cause yet.
I disagree. There are some major red flags, like his wife's unwillingness to hug him, her FB use and question, and some others that I picked up on.
I think the Sprint call logs should tell us what we need to know, one way or another. If they are negative, he could decide to look no further, but I think that one step is a reasonable precaution, considering what's at stake here.
